Re:Completely Broken dj_pinkey: Hi there -
Don't give up just yet! Don't say "completely broken" unless it's something that can't be fixed. Maybe the relationship belongs in this category, but most of us here are in that situation. But people are fixable unless they choose to remain broken. You'll find lots of people here that consider themselves "damaged goods". But even things that are damaged have value, and we're all here trying to fix our brokenness and increase what we feel we are worth. Stay with your therapist if that's working for you. Finding out what you need to repair is a big issue, but once you've got that, you're halfway there! ;)
Take care - DJ
Re:Completely Broken RecoveringinDE: He blinder! I read this before I started work and had to wait until now to respond.
You are not broken. As DJ said, you are not unless you want to be. Speak to your couselor and go from there. I'm sure it felt good to get it out of your system even though we aren't professionals =) Don't be sorry that you posted here. You are a very sweet person from what I've heard in IM Chat. And remember, it takes TWO to have a relationship. She chose her path and you being sensitive followed her. You are not solely responsible. It is in it's own way a good thing she did leave. Now you can find out who you are. 10 years is not a waste. It's a learning curve. If you've learned something from this, then it is not a waste. And from your post, you have learned, faced it and are now dealing with it.
Keep your chin up hun!!
((Hugs))
RiDE
Re:Completely Broken MadorSad: Man
Let it out I keept it in for years I cryed like a baby man you know what now I get through the day and I feel OK just OK I can not say I feel better but OK is better than crying right
You will make it man small steps
MS
