She did not talk but she did???? MadorSad: Hey
She did not talk to me but she sent me an E-mail. A book about kids of acaholics. Guess this was a good thing I read it and instantly had all the answers. But wait someone on this site said small steps. It gets better when I got home from work (yes she was home this is a good thing I worry all the way home about this) she gave me a book about it and I started to read it. Iteresting stuff I plan on reading and I'll try to talk about it with her. I hope this is a start 8)
Thanks
Lost & Bug
MadorSad
Re:She did not talk but she did???? sadinct: Is your wife the child of alcholics? My wife is and the therapist I went to last week said she exhibits classic signs of beng the family hero.. the only one of 5 kids able to do anything, and doing everything for everybody..
Just thought I'd ask-
Doug
Re:She did not talk but she did???? MadorSad: Yes
She is/was now I have some insite into it. She had issue with my drinking too I think it scared her and I did nothing until recently so I just have to work on the trust with her and show that it is real and it will not go back to the way it was. She made this step so the rest is up to me and time I think will tell. The book she gave me is on the money about both of us. One step at a time right.
MS
Re:She did not talk but she did???? MadorSad: All
More questions.
Tuseday night she snugeld up to me in bed just snugueld this was strange ??? not much contact as I'm sure you all have gone through.
Wensday night she came to bed and did her reading turned off her light and cyred said she could trust no one no one I held her she stoped and fell a sleep. ???
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Do not know what to do ??? ???
Mad or Sad
Re:She did not talk but she did???? sadinct: Another case of mixed messages. Had a similar episode on last Saturday.. morning brought nothing but sour grapes.
Two nights in a row.. hmmm. I wonder if she's regretting the situation. You're being there for her probably makes her feel even worse about what she's done to you both.
Keep the faith-
Doug
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