Does anyone feel racked with guilt about their... qmambo: behaviour in the relationship and truly feel they are 100% to blame?
I feel like i was such a bad person to him, checkin up on him and making him feel useless. I am living with this now and feel i am such a bad person, or is it that we were not right for each other so its cause n effect and if i was with the right person then i would not feel what i felt?
Oh i feel like crap again iwant to call him to explain my behaviour and how sorry i am and that i am a good person.
Re: Does anyone feel racked with guilt about their... Breggen: I feel bad that I made my wife feel alone in our relationship. I feel bad that I made her want attention from someone else that eventually made her feel she had to cheat to get the attention.
I feel bad that after the cheating, I kept asking questions and reminding her of what she did. I feel bad that I kept pushing her to show me love and affection.
I especially feel bad now because I used her mom's trust to let me in their house and i went into her room (acting like I was using the restroom) but checked her computer.
Re: Does anyone feel racked with guilt about their... qmambo: I jst feel so bad :-( is this gonna be with me for the rest of my life?
Re: Does anyone feel racked with guilt about their... kimberly: It takes two. There must have been some reason for you to be suspicious and untrusting. Did he show you love, did he honour you and your vows? Was he a good husband...............did he 100% deserve a good wife? You are in the 'it was my fault phase', it will pass. Your mind is playing tricks.
Re: Does anyone feel racked with guilt about their... gdgross: I feel bad about being busy and being critical of my ex.
But I feel more bad that I picked a girl who wouldn't or couldn't communicate my own issues to me, and consequently clammed up and shut down and left me four years later.
