Do you ever........... sunnynow: Feel cheated about something? If so, what, and how did you deal with it?
Re: Do you ever........... pluscachange: [quote author=Sass link=topic=47553.msg568894#msg568894 date=1187227397">
Feel cheated about something? If so, what, and how did you deal with it?
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I've never:
1. Been a best man at a wedding, or even been a part of the wedding party.
2. Attended my high school prom(s)
3. Had a bachelor party thrown for me
4. Had a surprise party thrown for me
5. Grown up in a "traditional" household
6. Knew that many of the really cute girls when I was younger even liked me until I find out 20 years later when it's too late.
7. etc.
But you know what? I've done things others who did those things haven't, and maybe I'm not missing out at all, they are. Plus, my kids are happy and healthy, I live well, I don't freeze in the winter or swelter in the summer, I want for nothing, my dog is always happy to see me when I come home and I have socks that fit.
Life cheats and blesses us simultaneously with many things. If I start focusing solely on the cheats, the good things might stop happening as well. So, c'est la vie, there you go. :)
Re: Do you ever........... sunnynow: Plus,
You always seem to hit the nail on the head. You are right, if people start focusing on what isn't good for them they will go down hill. This is something that I have been fighting with. I have always had a very twisted, but positive outlook on life until here recently. I am trying to find that person again, I hope they are just on vacation.
Re: Do you ever........... PennyLane: I've been cheated out of a lot of things in life. To many to go in to.
I miss doing the things I use to be able to do. More so, I miss not being able to do a lot of physical activity with my kiddo.
Re: Do you ever........... sunnynow: [quote author=PennyLane link=topic=47553.msg568909#msg568909 date=1187228076">
I've been cheated out of a lot of things in life. To many to go in to.
I miss doing the things I use to be able to do. More so, I miss not being able to do a lot of physical activity with my kiddo.
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This makes some of the things that I have been pondering seem so petty, Penny. I really don't think I have had a lot to cheat me. Hugs! :-* :-* :'(
