Epiphany... christian: I realized something one day last month- I tried my best. I went back to drugs, I realized it was costing me my marrige. So, I quit. Went to counseling. For drugs AND marriage. She wouldn't(refused to) go to counseling, and she did'nt give me any support w/ my drug problem. I take full responsibility for my actions, but I also feel she needs to take the same for hers- she filed after finding out I was bipolar III (antidepressant caused.) She could have TRIED, but didn't want to. So, I feel I did everything I could have despite my f-ups.
Please, if you have a loved one with a problem, SPEAK UP!!! TRY!!! IF they can't get help, then do what you must; but for God/dess sake, TRY!