Re:slipping into oblivion in_search_of: HUGS, HUGS and MORE HUGS!
You are very strong in that you continue to give out the great advice that we are used to hearing from you, but you cannot let that hinder you from doing the healing that you need to do!
And no, none of us will think less of you because we know that you are scared! At least not me! You have spent many a day and night with me leaning on you! And I appreciate every minute of that!
*Hugs* Just think of all the things you have done! You are 1 year through the separation, you have hit all the firsts, and survived them! You have done the whole try out a relationship thing, survived that! You have made great strides and bounds!
Congratulations on that! And much happiness to you in the future!
HUGS!
Rebecca
Re:slipping into oblivion Lumpy: Dear Pic,
You have been an absolute comfort to me and many others on this site. Safety is dead on. You have been a pillar to this community. I wish I could buy you that beer big guy...I know things will get better for you. Stay Sane.
Re:slipping into oblivion Spectrum: Pic,
To answer your question, of COURSE you're doing this for you! I think you're so outside of yourself right now that you don't even remember that getting YOU through this is the whole point of things.
You need to find your center, bud. You need to take some time out to do something you *really* enjoy and try to get your mind off things. Or, failing that, you need to at least remind yourself that there are many, many things and experiences worth having out there, and any of them are still possible for you.... But you have to reach out and grab them!
Big hugs and hang in there, buddy. :-*
Spectrum.
Re:slipping into oblivion barelybreathing: My turn to return all those hugs you threw my way.....
My arms extended <HUGS> super tight squeeze!
Feel better?
BB
Re:slipping into oblivion ChristyM: You've always supported me N, and just when I seemed to need it the most. No one can be strong all the time. That's what this community is for ... we lean on you at times and other times you lean on us. Let us be there for you ...
Christy
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