Stupid comments sara: "Good thing there weren't any kids"... I wanted kids and we had already picked out names. Now I will never know what could have been.
Re: Stupid comments LaurenH: Well, with my situation, thank the Lord above that there was not any kids! To see more details on my story, I posted it here in the 'tell your story' area. But to make a long story short, we were married for 4 years and are now divorcing because he is gay...Lovely, huh? So whenever I hear that comment, I thank my lucky stars. Can you imagine trying to tell your child about that? Not only are their parents divorced, but then someday they would begin to ask why...I can see it all now..."Well, honey, your father likes men, so there was not any room for me anymore. So I had to leave..." What a nightmare!
However, I can understand how from a different situation, it would hurt...But even though you are hurting and wanted children with him, you will find love again someday, in your own time, and when you do, maybe that is the person you were meant to have children with...
I know I am hurting tremendously over my situation. But I also know in my heart, that someday, I will be over this. Someday, I will be able to move on and find new love. But I know I must "heal and deal"...as I like to call it.
Re: Stupid comments INCT (Guest): Sara,
I agree, we had picked out names as well. I hated to hear, "well at least you don't have any kids". I always wanted to scream Hey, what about me?? it's not just about kids, this is about me..
My wife and I were even still trying up until the time she walked out..
Re: Stupid comments SW: Sara,
I feel the same with not much hope. He was my high school sweet heart and both our names starts with S's so I wanted to name our children with S's but I guess that's not to be. I just reach 35 which will make it harder for me to have children, and WHEN WILL I FIND SOMEONE ELSE?
Re: Stupid comments Jami: Awwwww that is sad! I am sorry you have to listen to that. I am sure people mean no harm by there comments and in there own way perhaps they think it will make you feel better!:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(
I have a child from my marriage and I am very glad. I am lucky and I know that. Sometimes I look at my son and I call my ex and say thank you! Although he couldn't make our marriage work he gave me a wonderful gift. I will always be grateful for that.
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