Re:just a vent Alison: Kin -
These are some of my biggest fears too. I feel sick to my stomach when I think of them. I read some of the replies and they all sound good, but how do we face our fears about these things? For now I try to bury those thoughts but I know they will have to be dealt with at some point. Let me know if you find some magic trick that helps!
Alison
just a vent Kinney26: I really don't expect replies but I just need to vent for a second. I just keep getting bad thoughts is my head. This whirlwind the past week has got my head spinning. I just think that one day some other F*ck is going to get on his knee and propose to my stbx and she will say yes. She promised to be with me forever. 4 years is a very short forever. Yes, I know, I will find someone better and she will just be a memory. As for now I am just upset. She is supposed to be with me, we have a family that she always said was #1 to her. Bullsh*t!! It just still makes me sick to think that she will be with someone else. Yes, I will totally move on and be ok eventually, but that time has not come yet and that lying bit*h still pisses me of. Ok now you see the angry side of Kin. >:( OK I think I am done for now. Da*n I love Ojar.
Kin
Re:just a vent caringmom: Whatever it takes to get it out. That's what OJAR and everyone is here for.
Yes, you will find someone else, someone better. I think you will find someone much better. Someone that will love you and your son unconditionally.
That someone else that your ex-wife finds will also have to put up with all her bullsh*t too. She probably won't stay with him very long either. Selfish people only think of themselves and don't care who they hurt along the way. I believe she will get hers in time.
Take care Kin, and you can do your venting anytime. ;)
Re:just a vent Shanna: BIG HUGS, KIN!!!
I know what you mean....I dont' want my STBX back, but damm!t I really don't want to see him with anyone else either....unless it is someone making him miserable. ;D
Re:just a vent Kinney26: Shanna,
LOL, I know what you mean
