Re:just a vent Kinney26: Almost impossible to understand. After 6 months, I still don't know what the hell happened.
Kin
Re:just a vent marfanoidus: Kin, I know how you feel.
You need to focus on those feelings, accept them for what they are trying to tell you, and come to terms with them because more obstacles lie ahead of you.
There will come a time when you see your ex holding hands or sharing a kiss with a new SO.
There will come a time when your ex compares you to the new SO and tells you how you don't measure up.
There will come a time when hear your ex speaking to the new SO using words such as "honey", "dear", and "I love you".
I read somewhere yesterday - life is 1% what happens to us and 99% how we react to it.
good luck to you,
walt
Re:just a vent Kinney26: Thanks man,
those are the visions I am trying to get out of my head right now. I know it is just reality it will happen, and I know it is reality I will do the same thing with another woman. At this point in time I am just not ready to deal with that yet. When the time comes that I have to, so be it. Well actually, I could see myself doing things with another woman, just not her with another guy. Double standards rule!! :) I also think that when I am with someone else that I truly care about, I probably won't give a crap about what she is doing. I usually try not to think about it anyway. Sometimes it just appears.
Kin
Re:just a vent Shanna: I am with someone else....BUT I still don't want anyone else to have him....I don't want him to be happy.....I must be a total Beeotch
Re:just a vent brokenman: No Shanna, it's normal. But it fades quickly. Pretty soon you will realize that you don't have any clue what your STBX did this week, this month, or even this past year. You will realize that you don't know anything about him anymore. Along the way you release your hold on ownership. It isn't easy when you are sorting through old pictures, but it gets better.
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