MY LIFE JUST FELL APART TONIGHT!!! favoriteangel2003: 4:20 a.m. in the morning...have been up all night. My life as I ever knew it just fell apart. It happened at 1:00 a.m. tonight and I can't even call anyone for support so I am coming to you my OJAR friends. I am glad I found this sight or I would be afraid for myself right now.
Here is my story....I found some disturbing stuff in my husbands office tonight so I thought I better try to get a hold of his phone records and make sure he isn't doing anything behind my back. He has done it before ...calling datelines and all that stuff during both my pregnancies. Well he then started having his phone bill sent to his parents adress 3 years ago...because he used some lame reason about setting up a new account and couldn't use our home address. He added my cell phone to his bill several months ago so now I thought I would try to get access to the account and call history. WELL ...there are to many pages , too many numbers from everywhere you could imagine and he still did it every year since then. I feel so stupid! I am trying not to get down on myself considering the situation. I will be getting a divorce now...I have to call a lawyer today...to top it off I am a stay at home mom for the past 3 years...now I have to hurry up and find a job too. I want this over with...I am sick and tired and after tonight very week. I can't (but can) believe this. I am so afraid. I don't know what to do at this point...where do I start. What are my rights? I am shaking so bad I can't even type! Can anyone suggest any affordable lawyers or what my next move should be? Please I need help! I have never been so low in my whole life. My poor girls!!! My daughter's birthday was October 25 and he was late for her party...he said he was installing a garage door at his parents house...well he finished early because he kept calling different girls constantly from 3:00-6:30p.m. The party started at 5:00. and to top it off he had calls coming in on his phone until 8:00 that night. I am heart broken! I always considered myself so bright and smart when it came to seeing through people...well I guess I have proved it....LOVE IS BLIND!
Re:MY LIFE JUST FELL APART TONIGHT!!! whathef?: aLL OF US HERE PRETTY MUCH KNOW THE FEELINGS YOU HAVE.
OOOPS....
You'll be better off as will the kids.
It takes time to heal, but the rewards are worth the pain.
Hang in there!
John
Re:MY LIFE JUST FELL APART TONIGHT!!! favoriteangel2003: John,
Thank you for responding...I have been up all night...going crazy wanting and needing someone to talk to. I won't call and wake anyone...but I am going crazy right now.
Thank you for your advice I hope you are right!!!
Re:MY LIFE JUST FELL APART TONIGHT!!! whathef?: The single most important thing I learned to do through all this is to "breathe".
Deep purposeful breaths.
Things WILL get better.
Everything happens for a reason.
Keep coming here for strength and support.
:)
Re:MY LIFE JUST FELL APART TONIGHT!!! RecoveringinDE: Hi hun!
I'm sorry you are going through this =\ What he is doing is bad enough. But to do that during HIS daughters BDay party???? That alone is unforgivable.
Sounds like you will be better off without him. He doesn't deserve you.
Go through your yellow pages in the phonebook and look for lawyers that have free consultations. Usually 1/2 hour to an hour.
Good luck to you!
((Hugs))
RiDE
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