I will see him today... lovelost: My H is in town and he is planning to pick up some things at our house. I don't think that I want to see him. I did but after last night, I feel different. I called him to make our plans and I could tell he was at a bar. He said he was with his parents out for dinner, but I really didn't believe him. He said that he might be coming to town last night and staying in a hotel. Then he said that he would just drive this morning.
I think he was in town last night and with the OW. Of course, I have no proof and I'm probably just psycho. Now today, he will likely see the OW and it just makes me sick.
If he sees her or spends any time with her, I really just don't want to see him. I know it shouldn't matter. But it does. Just when you think you are making progress.
Re:I will see him today... marfanoidus: You might be missing an opportunity for growth, closure and finality.
Remember your confidence.
If there is no hope of reconciling, then imagine having the strength to look him in the eye in such a fashion as to let him know you are going to be just fine.
If the OW is there, who cares? What does that have to do with who you are, what you have ahead of you, what you have to offer?
Strength is not something which happens to us - it something we must take hold of.
best of luck to you,
walt
