Re:Always a cheater? cop501: Jeff
Go to Google and type in Histrionic personality disorder. This is what my ex is. See if it fits your wife. Also try Narcistic personality disorder. About three sites down in the search you will see a site that says P-type personality disorder. This site explains it best.
Re:Always a cheater? jeff: Thank you all so much for the support. It is not an easy situation to deal with as you all know.
The description of Histrionic personality disorder pretty much defines her.
Unfortuneately there is no hope of me ever taking her back. I have not been speaking to her much, but I did call her this past Friday. She had said that she is still talking to this person that she cheated with and even stated that they are friends. Again she is coward for not telling me the truth. I do know now that she has made her choice to stay with this person and that is actually better for me. Easier for me to move on... I will not delude myself into thinking that I can help her to be well again. One nagging question is that does this other guy that she has been sleeping with know about the third guy that she told her friend she slept with while she was sleeping with the two of us?
It really is too bad that this all had to end like this for us. I am not blaming myself at all. I have treated her like gold our entire relationship. I wish I would have known that she did not deserve it...
I will give her parents the info on Histrionic personality disorder. They are friends of mine, whom I really feel for. One of the toughest things in front of me now is to tell her family that I need a little space for a while because it is way too hurtful for me to continue to see them. I just need to make sure that they understand that it is temporary. It will break their hearts into even smaller pieces than it is aleady broken into if they think otherwise.
Thanks again all. I will keep posting as I may need to vent or ask for advice. I admire all of you who have gone through similar situations and moved on with your lives. It's tough to fathom getting over something like this but I know that with support and time I will.
-jeff
Re:Always a cheater? jeff: Does anybody have any legal advice? The marriage only lasted 5 months, and she was cheating all through that and before the wedding. Is divorce the only route I can take? Is an annulment an option? I would say that the marriage was never really valid in the first place if she had no intentions of being faithful.
Thanks
-Jeff
Re:Always a cheater? tossed: I dont know about you but for me all I could
ever think about Is some other man inside my wife.
its never the same.
Re:Always a cheater? devochic: Yes annulment is definitely an option in your case. You will have to look up the specific requirements in your state of residence. Good luck.
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