Re:NEED support in OHIO gardengirl: Central Ohio area (more like Columbus - working on moving there, so I'm always down there anyway)
Re:NEED support in OHIO AlterDecko: Cleveland Ohio...always looking for some new peepz to help out and help me out.
Re:NEED support in OHIO HeartbrokenDingo: I'm from Ohio...Lima area...could also use someone to talk to. This is the most horrible thing that I have ever gone through. No one gave me a handbook for this when I got married...just a marriage license. I married the man that I thought was the love of my life. I absolutely worshipped (still?) the ground he walked on. Only married 2 and 1/2 years (3 in August), but been together a total of 4. Found out that he was cheating on me. Threw him out of the house, (our house that we had only purchased one year earlier) changed the locks and filed for divorce the very next day. Did I forget to mention that two weeks earlier I had been informed of his presence in a bar with this woman and confronted him and later forgave him because he swore that it was just drinks in a bar? I asked him if he wanted a divorce and he said No, adamantly. Said he loved me, was in love with me and absolutely did not want a divorce. So, loving him as much as I did, I forgave him. 2 weeks later I got his cell phone bill. HE HAD CALLED HER 172 TIMES IN ONE MONTH! When I called the number and got her voice mail, I started retching right there on the spot. When I called him and confronted him about the bill, at first he denied it, then said that yes, he had called her...he liked talking to her. That's when I told him that he was going to have plenty of time for that. He never even bothered to come home. I threw his clothes out in garbage bags in the driveway (since he threw me away like a piece of garbage I felt it was appropriate.), changed the locks, and filed for divorce the next day. Then I cried for 2 straight weeks. What really twists the knife even more is the fact that he used to be my boss. I was a waitress in his restaurant and he was my General Manager. He was not married. We began dating and they transferred me to another restaurant so that we could be together and we did eventually get married. I thought my life was a fairy tale. The woman he is seeing...? SHE IS A WAITRESS IN HIS RESATAURANT!!! How do I even BEGIN to deal with that??
