How can she say this ? ukchap: Ok everyone
Something my Wife has said to me is confusing me no end
perhaps you may have some insight into what it may mean.
It's more or less 3 months since she left ... we are on speaking terms still and have had regular contact ...
A couple of days ago during the course of a business like conversation I say to her " how do you feel about all of this mess " she then says " I'm really heartbroken " and displayed would you believe an emotional responce
And then after a few moments we end up having a business like conversation once again ........
should I be thinking anything about this comment or perhaps it was just made to make me feel better ..
What do you think ?
UK Chap
Re:How can she say this ? Matt: I dont think she really knows where she is emotionally mate... Just my spin on it...
I would brush it off..really..
My ex said some of the same things, and showed some boo-hoos as well during our divorce, and yet the harmful behaviour never ceased. ( which spoke volumes to me..) So the process continued.. I just couldnt trust what she said, or did as it was wildly inconsistant...
Focus on you, and getting your life back in order.. thats the most important thing... Her emotions are all over the place , and trying to analyze them or make sense of them is roughly akin to hearding cats...
Hang in there...you'll make it mate...
Matt
Re:How can she say this ? dj: I agree with Matt. I have been second guessing the things my stbxw has been saying to me for several months now. Hard one minute, crying the next. Finally, my counselor told me that basically, it is silly to even think about it. He said that likely this is just part of her grieving process and really has nothing to do with you. Keep on working on yourself...which I continue to do as should you.
Re:How can she say this ? favoriteangel2003: I agree with Matt and Dj....she probably does feel bad though and she is grieving also. Just don't jump back on the wagon because of it. Just know that you aren't the only one hurting and move forward. :)
Angel :)
Re:How can she say this ? simon 17: Leave it alone. Words are cheap. Actions are what matter. If she wants something more, she knows where to find you.
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