Re:How can she say this ? ukchap: Thanks for the replies guys
Watch out for a long winded posting from me sometime in the next week or so ...
I have instructed my lawyer to draw up the petition to start the legal procedings which will put me on the road to Divorce ...
(over here the only way to divorce quickly is to blame the other party) I will use UNREASONABLE behaviour as the grounds
I am far from happy about this but I am worth so much more that how she has treated me ..
Those of you that have followed my postings will have some idea about some of the issues .....
God knows where I will get the strength from ..
I'm crying my eyes out already .......
however enough is enough !
Uk Chap
Re:How can she say this ? Matt: ukchap..
I know its hard... I remember feeling the same way, big time. But you are doing the right thing here imho.. She's not coming back to reality, and is only prolonging the agony for both of you..
calling your lawyer was the first step on the long path to closure and getting on with you life. You are correct "enough is enough"...
stay stong mate, and take care of yourself..
matt
Re:How can she say this ? ukchap: I'm sitting here feeling the effects of a few beers and saying to myself " My god how surreal" ......
last year if you had told me that I would be pouring my heart out to a group of people who are going through the absoulte hell of divorce , separation and its aftermath
I would have said "no way would I ever be in that situation"
Well I am and thank goodness for all of you who offer kind words and support ...
In a very lonely world your thoughts are comforting
and help me sleep at night ...
UK Chap
Re:How can she say this ? amess: Your avatar says it all, this seems like some sort of Greek he.. But, they say we shall all get through it; sometimes I don't see the light at the end, and this month I really don't, but there is always next month. I'm glad you can find some comfort here on Ojar. I, too, last year, would never have dreamed this is where I would be left, out here, in some single's nightmare, but here it is. The shock is still not entirely gone, but I wait.
Re:How can she say this ? ukchap: Dear Amess
I liken it to falling overboard from a cruise liner in the middle of the atlantic ...
Ojar is the liferaft until dry land is found !
but the question is where the hell is the dry land
and what the hell will I do if I find any ?
I feel adrift on the sea of life and the sharks of Divorce are circling in a bid to devour me.
UK Chap
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