Re:The Jealousy Paradox amess: Freedom + reliable safe sex=empty. Do you really want just a f... buddy? Sex with an emotional investment is the real deal, and after you have had that, the other leaves you feeling flat. Sex with no emotional investment; I couldn't play that game.
Re:The Jealousy Paradox OldSchool: Tara,
I won't have sex w/out a condom, no matter what. Even if I was dating someone for a while and it was serious, there's no way I'd slip it off for a half-hour of pleasure... or a couple minutes. :P
Well, I was in a situation like yours last month, where the sex was about once a week and it wasn't even that good. She had a great body and we physically connected, but honestly I didn't feel really fulfilled after sex with her. I knew were just in it physically, and that doesn't make things very challenging... does it?
I'd be happy with a relationship with something more at stake than just the once-a-week romp! On the flipside, I'm not sure how ready I'd be if a commitment was offered to me. It would definitely have to be a great situation and my gut would have to be 100% for it.
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Re:The Jealousy Paradox jason_stl: Not to get too terribly offensive, but sex with and without a condom is like comparing night and day.
Re:The Jealousy Paradox in_search_of: Hmmm, taking your word for it...
Re:The Jealousy Paradox OldSchool: I hate condoms! I just don't believe a woman when she says to trust her that she's on the pill.... and I won't get snipped just to be able to have sex w/out a condom. I have an ex-friend that did that, and now he's getting married again... and of course the bride-to-be wants kids. So he now faces that procedure... that you know... gets him unsnipped? F--- it... I'd rather wear the hood.
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