Re:stbxw parents. should i send? Chey: I'm with the majority, it cant be sent. A lot of this is nothing that relates to you, so it's not up to you to tell them. Your wife will tell them if she wants to, it's not your place to do that.
You would only be doing this for your own reasons, to vindicate yourself. It's not a productive letter, and it belongs here, as a vent, and justifiably so, you've been given a pretty raw deal, and it all sounds pretty horrific. But this is not for the family to see...so keep this one under wraps.
Chey
Re:stbxw parents. should i send? Lumpy: Dear Smo-kin,
Gotta concur with everyone else. These are some extremely personal issues that you bring up and I don't believe that you have the right to divulge it. If she doesn't feel comfortable disclosing this stuff to her folks she must have some pretty good reasons. Also this is very incendiary. I know that in your current mood you probably feel like burning some bridges but you really need to think about what you're doing. DSx is right. You could never take it back. Ultimatly I think it would just cause your ex more pain. Take the high road.
