What do I do? istherehope?: My wife and I separated not to long ago. We have had a hard marrage. I did alot of selfish things in the marrage but I have realized it and she does not trust what I say. She also thinks that I was seing other people. so not true. How can I show her that I will never hert her again?
Re:What do I do? hardened_heart1970: sorry to hear it. im in the same boat. my stbxw "thinks" im the one who betrayed her, and i havent. i think once they have it in their head, we are done. if you figure out a way, please tell me, and if i do, i will tell you. gooood luck
Re:What do I do? istherehope?: I have tried to tell her that I have seen what I have done but to no avail. She threw it in my face.
Re:What do I do? hardened_heart1970: yeah i know. she said "your going to have to live the rest of your life thinking about it"
what about all the great times we had? i gave her a letter through my sister, and my sister said tears came to her eyes. then my sister said is there any hope? she said "no"
how the hell can she go from tears to no, when weve had way more great times than bad? i so dont understand it. i think im being punished by the big guy for something. none of her family will even talk.
im going, i see this is going to be a low day a frigin gain. when the hell will it get better?
Re:What do I do? cadillacjack: IMHO, she is justifying her own actions i.e. leaving (or cheating if that's the case) by accusing you. If she really believes that you were unfaithful then it's easier for her to move on....and/or make your life hell, if that's her game....just a guess.
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