Re:Rebound Sex skavachi: Hmmm....yeah well, it can work. I had a fun time with it once for a few weeks. She decided she wanted more. I didn't. She hates me. I was honest and she still got shitty about it. I think it is hard to find 2 people with the exact same wants in mind. But, like I said, it was fun. I am undecided. Sorry thought I was going to help ya out there.... :P
Re:Rebound Sex kellsbee: I am so undecided! I need more input. I am nervous and I havent had firsts (first kiss, first touch, first sex) in almost eight years. And even then it was all highschool crap. I dont even really think that counts does it?? I had pleanty of sex in highschool but what now? I want to go out and have fun. Casual sex would be wonderful but I dont know how!
SOS...The weekend is coming up pretty fast. More advice please!??!
Re:Rebound Sex OldSchool: Kellsbee,
If you think it feels right then go with your gut. Unfortunately you won't know until you're in that position. Maybe the guy will be a jerk and you'll reject him, or everything will click and you'll want to extend the night.
Just be cautious and look out for yourself first and don't feel like you have to do this just because you feel pressure or something. I'm sure you'll do the right thing for yourself.
OS
Re:Rebound Sex skavachi: So I was thinking about this today at work and if I had it to do all over again, I really wished I hadn't jumped into the whole situation. It was too easy. I like a challenge personally. I should have felt out the situation first. But, like OS said, you don't really know how you will feel until the situation arises. 8 years is a long time, but if it's been that long, I think 1 weekend won't kill ya ;) Feel out the situation and go from there. You'll know how to "do it" when the time comes. It's scary, but hard to forget what goes where. :P
Good luck this weekend. You'll do fine!
Re:Rebound Sex kellsbee: Thanks All! I am trying not to sweat the small stuff. As for this weekend I am planning to hang with the nieces. I got asked out again (another blind date) but politely declined. I have been considering all of the options about casual rebound sex but still have yet to make up my mind one way or another. Maybe if it is meant to be it will happen. Please feel free to continue to post thoughts and experiences... I have a feeling this rollercoaster is going to be a very long ride.
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