Stupid!!! jen: It is so stupid to let little, annoying details bother me. I know this. It bothers me that it can still bother me...ha! if that makes any sense.
I stopped in at a friend's house, both she and her husband are coworkers of my stbx, to drop off a small thank you for helping me out after my accident last weekend....found out the company x-mas party was last night.
It occurred to me after I left that if he went w/ OW (also a coworker), then it means he is out in the open w/ this relationship w/ everyone now...and for some reason it really irked me.
I also saw my SIL and nephew this week and found out he is whining about not having enough $. I just want to say that he is a slimy, cheating, lying @sshole. I hate that I'm the one stuck w/ the details of selling our house and he's off f***ing his new gf and blowing all of his $ partying and taking her out and I'm supposed to feel bad that he does not have as much $ because he still has to pay his part of the mortgage????
Re:Stupid!!! OldSchool: Well, that just means he's realizing his downward spiral already. If he's worried about not having enough money now, wait until you guys are split and he's got to carry on in his new single life. I'm sure it will get much worse for him before it levels off. My ex did the same things... complain about money even though she was living with her mom and just recieved over $10k from her share of our house. Yep, wait a bunch of windbags... let 'em complain.
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