Re:Facing the new year. lvaughn24: I know how you feel. My husband and i separated. He is with another woman and is very much in love with her but the difference is that she feels the same way about him. He tells me all about how great she is and how much better she is in bed. It hurts like hell. He still has the urge to be intimate with me and we have several times once a week ago. We sleep together then he leaves and goes to his girlfriends house who i think but im not sure he lives with already. we were married for 3 years together a total of 7. He moved on so quickly weve only been sparated for 2 months, and he started dating her a month after he left. I just dont get it we moved slowly in our relationship why does he move so quickly with her. I cant seem to move on. I dont really want to be with him but I cant say no to him when it comes to sex. He left and has no desire to work on the marriage and wants a divorce. Why do I still give in to him it just keeps me more attached. I cant repeat these patterns either. :-[
Re:Facing the new year. AloneandCold: He is dating her and maybe living with her but still having sex with you? See in my case it makes me feel like I am helping him hurt her like he did me.