Getting Uglier By the Minute...Change Mind? exntexas: Have any of you filed for the divorce, but as time went on things got so ugly with the attorney's and all that you changed your mind and decided to reconcile instead?
Re:Getting Uglier By the Minute...Change Mind? betteroffalso: Nope, not here. The reason things are so ugly is because he's a friggin moron! After the things he has done there is no way reconciliation would be in the plan. If things are so ugly, why would you want to reconcile? Also, is this a mutual choice? Both of you would have to want it. But I would have to say consider very carefully what it was that caused the seperation in the first place. Dont let the ugliness of divorce crowd that out.
Take Care!
Re:Getting Uglier By the Minute...Change Mind? exntexas: No, I didn't want it...kept praying he'd see the light of his abusiveness and how it was affecting me...he likes to fight and he fights dirty...I'm finding out he's being no different in the divorce proceedings...I wish he knew there was a friendlier way...that we didn't have to "hate" each other.
