Happy New Year? lvaughn24: So its a new year, and Im alone. My husband took his new girlfriend to visit some friends we made while we lived in Hawaii. Costs alot of money to go to Hawaii. He hasnt given me a dime since the day he left. He says he cant afford to help me out so how can he take his girlfriend to hawaii. I have his 2 kids you would think helping me support our kids would be more important than taking his girlfriend and her kid on vacation. Yeah she has a kid that isnt his, and hes become daddy to her kid, and hasnt even talked to his in 5 days. Sorry im blabbering. by the way the father of his girlfriends child is in jail. I just dont get it why is his girlfriends needs more important than his kids.
Re:Happy New Year? jjbswest: I feel the same. My stbx and his new girlfriend partied it up last night and she was at their new year dinner today when my kids called him. I also am alone. Well, we aren't alone. WE have our kids and each other. I know it's not the same. But today, I wonder, what will this coming year be like for me? Will I meet someone that will treat me with the respect that I deserve? Will it be a lonely year? As far as the money, our house payment is due today and he blew his money drinking last night and hasn't offered me a dime either. I don't understand.
Re:Happy New Year? lvaughn24: men suck. no offense to you men out there but are thier decent men left in this world?
Re:Happy New Year? ravenwood: Well I don't know if there are any decent men left out there or not. But for this great man, I to spent New Years alone while my ex was out with her new other. She didn't even bother to call the children untill I text messaged her to tell her the kids were asleep and not to bother. I personally wonder if there is any woman out there who want the nice guy.
Re:Happy New Year? cadillacjack: [quote author=lvaughn24 link=board=1;threadid=6543;start=0#msg52614 date=1104647900">
men suck. no offense to you men out there but are thier decent men left in this world?
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Are there any decent guys left? There are probably a few women here asking that...so let me answer that with a question. What defines decent? I am right now a single dad with 2 good kids, I work a full time job, have a business on the side, collect cars (cadillacs) ride harleys, live ok, non violent, easy going, fun loving guy, who is/was deeply in love with his wife; who left me high and dry for a pathetic, game playing semi employed, broke, 50 something loser. Is he a decent guy?
She thinks so...
I am not trying to sell myself to you or anyone here, yet I am worried about my future too! I feel that I might not meet a "decent girl" who ever she is. That I could spend the rest of my time alone bothers me alot. I am older than most people here on this site, and lot of you have your youth, something that is invaluable espescially when it comes to dating. In that case you all have me beat... In spite of what's happened to me I am still a romantic, although I have romance on the back burner for now. I am focusing on raising my kids, getting healthy (I joined a gym) both physically and mentally. I feel I have come along way since she left.
To answer your question, there are plenty of decent guys out there, BUT to find the Brad Pitt or Matt Damon looking fellows with all the ideal qualities, "you'll be looking for a custom fit in an off the rack world" to quote Hawkeye Pierce (TV's M*A*S*H*)....wise words....age has taught me appearance is slightly important it's whats inside that counts.
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