Re:Happy New Year? jjbswest: I have been done wrong as all of you know. I too wonder if there are decent men out there. I do think there are a few. I thought my stbx was decent. I think we will find us a decent someone because this time we will be looking for someone with morals, respect, etc. we won't be looking at them in the innocent childish way we looked at our first ones. we looked at them for looks first, then what was on the inside. Now, alot of us has learned, it's the inside that counts.
Re:Happy New Year? in_search_of: Funny that you should say that I was talking to my friend Kelly last night and she asked me what my type was. And I said ummmmm, I dunno, I will talk to anyone who approaches me anywhere, and I will do the approaching as well. But, its totally random as far as what they look like. I just look for someone who looks like they would be fun, and looks like they are having a good time, or I might pick the guy sitting in the back of the room who is not talking (those are the ones that have the best stories, I swear).
But I got to thinking about it last night, mostly I go totally on personality. I have dated some guys who were really cute, but dumb, and well, I get rid of those quick, I have dated some that were not particularly cute, but with whom i had a lot of fun, and I kept those around. I have dated some cute ones and some not so cute ones who I enjoy talking to, and well, I totally go on personality, and the ability to keep up with my off the wall humor and antics.
Attractiveness is only skin deep, and well, that is going to fade in time anyway. I was also having a conversation with someone a couple of days ago about defining love. And the answer that he had was the lyrics of the song "You are so beautiful to me" which was an interesting answer to the question, but a wonderful answer to this issue. The song does not say you are so beautiful, it says you are so beautiful TO ME, you have to find someone who is attractive to you, and to whom you are attractive, luckily there are as many tastes as there are different kinds of people.
Re:Happy New Year? Kinney26: Yes there are good men left. Myself for example. I am trying to rebuild a relationship with my ex and hopefully have my family back together again. It has been very hard and frustrating at times, but my family is everything to me and I would do anything for it. I also still love my ex very much and I never wanted a divorce in the first place. I am a very honest and loyal man. I don't ever remember lying to my ex in 7 years. I have never cheated on anyone and never would. I may be old school in my was and thinking abut relationships, but I think that is a good thing.
Kin
Re:Happy New Year? lvaughn24: I thought mine was a good guy, and he was until he got discharged from the military. We had some great years and stuck together through everything. Why do people change so much. He hasnt called the kids in a week.Hes a jerk
Re:Happy New Year? Hells_Fairy: I just have to put my two cents in on my wonderful STBX. He wouldn't keep a job.. wouldn't pay his child support until I made him.. wouldn't see his kids and still doesn't except now he has one by me.. he took everything I have.. got a note off of my Jeep that I owned and now won't pay a dime when it's going to get repoed, dropped me and the kids off in my mothers garage and left us because we lost the house, which by the way we were on welfare and that's even more pathetic.. is driving a brand new truck that I got him, along with his license back and met another woman, never sends us any money or calls to check on the kids.. buys himself all kinds of expensive things, but no child support.. won't sign the divorce papers because child support will be in the thousands.. stole from my family.. spends thousands on casinos and porn, but no money or diapers.. That's just SOME of Mr. Wonderful.
I guess atlease I am still young and almost done with school. Atlease I have my kids to wake up to every morning and have God to thank for that. Could be worse. I am so sorry to ramble.. I just hate the way some people are.
Click More for the next page.
