should i give him this? TMPC: Dear ******,
I have tried over and over to let you know how badly I am hurting inside. It seems you do not want to communicate with me.
We have only been married for 2 months. I want our marriage to work, but it takes 2 people.
I am tired of you acting as if you are single. I do not understand why you are acting this way............. before we got married you did not act this way.
You left me alone on Christmas Eve, 1/2 Christmas day, and now New Year's Eve. I demand to be respected. You are changing into someone I do not know. Drinking and hanging out with your friends all the time. You do not call me to say you will be late and that is IF you decide to come home at all. You are losing me but don't see it.
I CAN NOT continue living like this. I do not know what else to do. If you are not happy or if you feel we've made a mistake by marrying, then you need to tell me.
Our relationship is falling apart. I need your help. All I ask is be honest with me. Thinking about divorce this early is not a good sign, but it is better to get it out of the way now than to live the life we are living.
Sincerely,
Me
Re:should i give him this? OldSchool: TMPC,
I'm not sure if the letter is the way to communicate with him, but if there's nothing else that will get thru to him then yes. If you think this will affect whether you divorce him or not, then you need to communicate this to him as soon as possible.
I wish you the best.
OS
Re:should i give him this? Schawdae: First of all I think that was very hearfelt letter. My only concern is that if you do decide to give him the letter that you are ready to accept the answer that might be given to you?? I am not by any means saying that is what is going to happen, I am only saying that there is an ultimatum given and I want to make sure that you are able to handle whatever answer you are given...GOOD LUCK TO YOU!!
Schawdae
Re:should i give him this? raistlynne: I agree with Schawdae. The pain you are in is great, and if the answer to your letter is negative, you will have even more pain in store. You do deserve answers, but don't leave yourself to handle the aftermath alone.
