a dream or vision jjbswest: My sister and i were talking last night about people who have dreams that come true. Well, last night I had a dream and it wasn't a dream like I usually have. The ones I usually have are dreams about stbx and gfriend together. And I wake up crying. Last night's dream was that he came to me and wanted to talk. I talked and listened and he had his wedding ring on. But, he had one on the middle finger of the other hand too. He said that she made him wear that one because he was wearing his wedding ring from me. Then he said he was unhappy and that since our divorce, she acts like she doens't want him because he doesn't make enough money for her anymore. Is this a dream or vision of the future? Any dream interpreters out there anywhere?
Re:a dream or vision Kinney26: Well, your mind is always working while you are asleep, so if you want him back you are bound to dream about it. I may not be the best to respond though because I always had dreams of me and my ex getting back together even when she said there was no chance and now we are trying to rebuild a relationship. I would just say, don't take it fir more than it is, a dream. Try not to give yourself false hope if there is none. If you are to get back together it will happen, but if not than it was just not meant to be. I know yo uwant to cling on to any sliver of hope and that is normal, just try not to make too much out of it.
Re:a dream or vision jjbswest: it's not really the hope of him coming back. i think it's more the hope of him realizing what he has done because in my dream, i didn't ask for him to come back. i am accepting the fact today that he doesn't want me anymore and that even if he came back and didn't really want to, he would still be unhappy. therefore, i would go through this all over again in the future. I wonder if i am hitting the acceptance phase of grief. But, i don't forgive him so maybe not.
