WTF! Hells_Fairy: My MIL came through the other day and bought some diapers and wipes. I was shocked. I had called the ex wife the other night to take her up on the offer of a mutual party so that my MIL and I can communicate. My MIL dropped them off at my sister-in-laws house and informed her that she couldn't see my son. She broke down. I know that she loves my son, but I won't allow them to treat me this way. Disrespect is something I do not approve of and will not accept. My STBX didn't call on Wednesday. That is our scheduled time. Turns out, he was in town yesterday and didn't even call or anything! He never comes to Texas and when he does, he doesn't bother to check on his son! That is pretty low if you ask me. I just don't know what to do anymore. I am so stuck. Kind of depressed tonight, but I/we will all get through it.
I don't understand my STBX. Two weeks ago he called to tell me that he f^cked up and that we meant the world to him and then now, I haven't heard from him since X-Mas eve... not even to check on his son. I just don't get it. It is too late to be taking him back, but it is nice to know that he thought that he screwed up. Or did he? Was he just trying to make himself feel better? I just don't know. I am so stressed out about my Jeep situation. I just don't know... sorry for the ramble. Any thoughts?
Re:WTF! Hells_Fairy: Well, I have had a crappy day. I learned that my STBX is getting his license suspended which means that he might not have a job which means that he is not going to be able to pay child support or pay my Jeep. I had my sister-in-law call my STBXMIL today but she didn't answer so she left a message. I still haven't heard from her. After that, the ex wife calls the MIL and told her to call my sister-in-law and I still haven't heard anything. I just don't know what to do. Should I call her and tell her that I will be glad to let her see my son if she can respect me and be nice? Or should I just let it lie and let her suffer? I just don't know.
Still haven't heard from the STBX. He is really proving himself. Why did he say he wanted to make things work and then turn around and be an a**? Please help me. I could sure use it. Thanks.
