Re:kin. i have questions. do u have answers? krunk79: Makes sense to me. Thanks for your advise, it's given me a couple things to think about as well
Re:kin. i have questions. do u have answers? bloke: I would add one thing to this. My wife and I went through all this last year - her saying she didn't love me any more, me being devastated and then me getting to a point where I was strong enough to start building me up again, and then she wanted to try again.
So we were supposed to "work on it" but we went too fast. We were busy with a lot of things and before we knew it we had just jumped straight back into how things were within about a two month period, and now if I'm honest I can see that we didn't fix anything at all and we're pretty much back where we got to when she wanted to leave. At least this time we both know it - and that's our only hope.
So, taking it slow might drive you nuts but I think it is VERY good idea. You need to build again from the ground up because if it all falls apart again this time I don't think either of us will believe it's fixable a second time and we'll just give up.
