Perfect Husband Assurbanipal: How would 'your' perfect husband deal with the envy of his wife being able to have so much sex so easy?
Re:Perfect Husband down south xhubbie: If I'm understanding you correctly, you are asking how do you deal with a stbx wife who is having sex quite often while you're at home alone. That is something I dealt with alot at first. I asked myself, "how could this be happening? Why is she having all this sex when I'm so horny and lonely? She doesn't even like it that much"
I know women enjoy sex just like men, but generally not as much as men do (ohh I'll catch some flack for that one) IMHO, I think it's merely a means to an end for them. What they crave is the attention, love, and caring that goes along with the act.
If this guy has stolen your wife, it's possible that she will end up very disappointed with him. She's probably looking for something that can only come from within herself. As I stated, I think they enjoy sex, but I don't think women typically stray just to have sex unless she is getting revenge on a cheating husband.
Any women want to fill in the blanks for us ????
For those of you who were faithful, it may be tougher to do so, but you may understand these women better than us. ???
Re:Perfect Husband Bubba: Go and have lots of sex yourself. If you don't have a problem with having one-nighters. Or just find one woman whom likes to have lots of sex as well. Say some woman whos husband cheated on her and wants to use you to get back at him~!!!!
Re:Perfect Husband jjbswest: I'm a woman and I have a stbxh who cheated on me and he is still with her. They have sex all the time while i am at home alone with my children. IT's not fair. You wanna hear something though? For the last month, my stbx refused to have sex with me. I guess he was trying to be faithful to his mistress! go figure!
Here's a question though for you: If it is just for the act itself for the man who cheats, why is he just with one person? Why did he not have sex with his wife who wanted it with him?
Re:Perfect Husband Assurbanipal: Hi,
Not there yet guys, still married and trying to learn to deal with my feelings, thanks for the input.
Sorry jjbswets, I don’t know the answer to your question, but aren’t these who are always watching each other back because they don’t trust in one another? If so its going to be pretty hard for them to mess around, but it will be pretty hard for them to have fun with each other, because Power Issues will soon arise.
Crushed, you really strike a cord with me, but what if your SO uses the sex as a Power Tool? How would the perfect husband deal with it?
