I can't believe this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! jjbswest: My stbx MIL called and said I hate to see you and my son throw away 12 years of marriage. Maybe you should think about a legal separation for 6 months and let him get his running around out of his system and then get back together!!!!!!! Does she think I am that stupid??????? I am not going to do that. If I did that whether he wanted me back or not, he would profit from it. I am suffering financially, emotionally, etc. He isn't helping me at all. My job has been closed down for two weeks (i go back thurs) but he hasn't helped me knowing that I have his two kids. He sees them and calls every night but he can't give me any money whatsoever. And then she calls with this. Would she say that to me if I had been the one to cheat? I don't think so!!!!!!!I am so mad!!!! He!! hath no fury like a woman scorned. I totally understand that saying now.
Re:I can't believe this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! richmds: Crushed is right, I have people supposedly in my corner that will tell me everything they think I want to hear.
Then there are people in her corner that say the same thing, let her get it out of her system and just wait.
You have to just believe in yourself and sift through all the crap they feed you.
Re:I can't believe this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! abelarde: The best advice came from my parents when they basically told me "We can't give you any advice. This is something you have to deal with on your own. We'll be hear to listen and help you when we can but we can't do or say anything to affect this decision you're going to have to make."
Re:I can't believe this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! jjbswest: there is no decision to make. i am not gonna sit back here and try to take care of my kids while he gets his "running around" out of his systerm. I just couldn't believe she had the nerve to say that.
Re:I can't believe this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! heartbroken4: MIL's will say whatever they can to get us not to leave! Its sad and they are desperate let me tell you. Mine said he cant live without you; you know that right. After I told her everything he had done and thats what she said. I will never forget when we were a couple of months married and she new he was treating me bad and I was pg and I told her I am leaving she said well you know he is going to run to his x right? I almost died what a horrible thing for her to say to me. This is a woman who never, never liked me and now that I am gone she has all the things to say to try and make me come back. Yeah my MIL is a piece of work! I dont listen to anything she has to say!
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