Re:he brought her with him to pick up our kids RecoveringinDE: Yep, sounds like a real winner there. I would get a lawyer. No way in the world would I allow my children around her.
Re:he brought her with him to pick up our kids lvaughn24: I dont know he loves her for whatever reason. Ill contact a lawyer. What do I tell them?
Re:he brought her with him to pick up our kids Suddenly Single: Hi LV,
I'm sorry about your situation. This woman sounds like a real winner.
First and foremost before you contact the lawyer. Sit down and write down as much as you can about this woman that is the truth. Dates/Times will be important. If you've got a record/timeline of things that were said and done then that will make you look more credible if you are more organized. You don't want to call a lawyer and have to rant off the top of your head.
Get your thoughts and everything organized on paper. Keeping in mind the stuff that is relevant to the well being of your kids. It sounds like you have enough just with the little you told us.
good luck. thinking of you!
SS
Re:he brought her with him to pick up our kids jjbswest: Well, I have been separated from him since dec 18. I got a lawyer and he said who has the kids? i said me. I don't have to let him see them. I do let him anytime but he has to see him under my supervision because right now if he gets them and don't bring them back then there's nothing I can do until court date. AS far as going to court, you have nothing to worry about because she has a jail record for one. He won't get custody. Mine won't get custody although he threatens me with it. I'm not worried. He has no home of his own, he lives with his single brother, they drink, they have single men over there, and he has his girlfriend spend the night alot. As much as that sounds like it doesn't matter, it does. You can get a restraining order against him, her, or both. YOur choice. But, you have the upper hand here. It sounds to me like he is just trying to scare you. Being gone a week and not contacting his kids is abandonment too. Don't forget that. HE cheated and abandoned you and the kids. IT's up to you.
Re:he brought her with him to pick up our kids lvaughn24: I have a police report for when she threatened me he heard her but probably wouldnt go against her. My only problem with him trying to get custody he might win im diagnosed and treated for depression and he knows it. Also after he left i left him some crude messages which he recorded.
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