Seemingly endless train wreck with an ex... pisces_goddess: ::) What a freakin day! Went to court with ex #1 whom I have very little contact w/ actually.. well even though he is a deadbeat dad he gets a trial date to have his child support reduced.. (I've only seen 1 check in 2 1/2 years) Anyway! He then goes to MY mothers house where I am headed to pick up my kids and we proceed to get in a screaming match & I take the high road & decide to leave, well he then blocks the door, I ask him to move he says no.. then I turn to go out another door , he grabs me from behind, blindsiding me with his big fat arm & says I am going to talk to him whether I want to or not. I manage to break free call 911 & the cops come and dont arrest him. Tell him his first assault is free but if it happens again he gets arrested. WHERE IS THE JUSTICE IN THIS WORLD? I've been down all day b/c of this loser.. not b/c we're divorced , hell I've had 1 since then, but b/c I feel like Im trying my damndest to make it & the a**holes keep winning.. BLAH! A friend of mine told me to think of it this way.. she heard a quote that said.. " I may have bad days , but I used to have bad years." that is what I think of when I think of both of my marriages... It does get better.. right?? ::)
Re: Seemingly endless train wreck with an ex... justmenow: I think that he would have had serious issues with the family jewels if he tried to physically stop me from going *anywhere*. What a jerk. I'm glad you're ok.
Re: Seemingly endless train wreck with an ex... achingallover: Oh Pices - what a mess. I'm so sorry this happened to you. I know what you mean about justice. I"m goign through a lot of things that simply make no sense and the unfairness of it all makes me want to barf! :P I think it's the "cornered" feeling that is the hardest - that and the pure fright of someone physically constraining you! Remember, you have your power - he doesn't! You WILL move on and get through this, even though it's just ubelievably crappy now. Try to breath, talk to your friends - us and others ;) . It always helps me to tell the story a few times - it helps me to process it and make sense of it. Stay strong. What was this guy doing in your mom's house anyway?!
Re: Seemingly endless train wreck with an ex... pisces_goddess: Thanks guys.. HUGS to you both! He was at my moms because he was whining to her about .. hell I dont know.. WHATEVER.. I guess he thought my mommy could talk some sense into me.. *LOL* I'm better now... Just been one long ARSE day... i wasnt even going to post .. but I just needed a little feedback and to vent!
Re: Seemingly endless train wreck with an ex... achingallover: This crazy person needs to vent to HIS OWN MOM!!!
I'm glad you vented. That's what we're here for! :)
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