Re:Are you too ashamed to tell anyone in real life? Chey: Just a resounding YES...I'm too ashamed to speak to many people about what I went through. Still am. There is so much I cant talk about. Not to anyone, I'm not ready yet, and I feel shame that I stayed as long as I did....but I took my vows seriously.
One day maybe...but not yet. So yes, I understand.
Re:Are you too ashamed to tell anyone in real life? pleesehelp: NoEscape- I was kind of ashamed to tell my friends about the situation because 0ne: She is my wife and Two: They loved her dearly and they all got along with her so well!
But the reason I called them was because the first night I was flipping out with myself at work (thank God no one works at night with me) and I really needed somebody to talk to! They supported me very well and still do,just like everyone here does!
The biggest shame is going to be when I tell my parents! They love my wife so much-my mom constantly tells her that and my dad even says it back when she tells him she loves him (and you never here my dad say that) My mom will be so crushed I dont know if I'll be able to handle her taking it!! Ive said it before -THIS SUCKS!!
Re:Are you too ashamed to tell anyone in real life? CoryL: At first I was in such disbelief that I couldn't think straight, let alone talk to anyone. After about a week of building pressure in my heart, I lost it at work one day. Luckily my business partner was there and let me get a lot of it out.
I was never and will never be ashamed of what she did to me. I wear it like a badge of honor. She did this to me, with a woman, changed her sexuality, and I am STILL HERE. I get up every morning, go to work, and come home every night. I didn't stray. I didn't give in to temptation. I kept and continue to keep my vows. I am the better person. I've learned a lot more about myself.
I am prepared to love again and will do so even more deeply and more affectionately than before (which was a lot). She may have hurt me, but I am not going to let her beat me.
I am a good person and deserve a good person and will find a better person.
Re:Are you too ashamed to tell anyone in real life? pleesehelp: What a great reply CoryL. I hope I can believe the same and live by it!
