Re:He is such a jerk... jjbswest: didn't reply because haven't been on until now but have been following your story. he is a jerk. your right. he doesn't realize your worth around there. he doesn't care really. mine didn't care what i did around the house but wanted me to work more, get a different job ( which i would have had to get a sitter for), anything for money. that was his love. not me. they are greedy, selfish people who only care about themselves and no one else. when you decide to get out of that situation, you will realize how much you are worth. and you will not put up with it from anyone else ever again. do what you need to do and in your own time. But, don't allow him to make you feel like you need him cuz you don't. you can make it on your own. i am and never thought i would be. here i am working, taking care of two kids and doing okay. that makes me see what i am worth and what i wont put up with anymore.
Re:He is such a jerk... txmom3: thanks jj. I read some of your story also. for a long time I just ignored his stupid behavior. Now I am documenting it and paying attention more so when I leave I wont be tempted to go back.. Thanks for your help.
Re:He is such a jerk... Shanna: You aren't being appreciated...just remember everythingyou do that he doesn't and if/when you are apart and he has to do everything himself he will then realize how much you do. That will be your justice.
Sorry I missed your post also.....I was gone for four days and just can't catch up. I may just give up and try to read the new ones.
Hugs to you girl we all care, but sometimes we aren't around to say anything right when you post something...don't take it personally.
I personally don't get back on here after 9pm central time.
Hugs
Shanna
Re:He is such a jerk... txmom3:
thanks Sully. I wont take it personal. On my old board there were usually quick responses so I think I got used to it. I cant wait till I am gone and he has to do everything for himself. He will see what I do then. He has no idea how to budget money and will lose everything he has. thats the worst part. But its his decision to be such a jerk and not my problem.
Thanks.
Re:He is such a jerk... Shanna: Funny you say that....I had to teach my stbxh how to write checks before I moved. THEN he must not have listened bc he sent a check to a credit card company in a reg envelope and didn't send the payment stub or even put the account # on there. What a tard ;D It was funny asking him....honey, if you can't do it maybe your mommy can..... LOL
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