Re:Hi, I'm new here. This is my story. favoriteangel2003: Jennah~
Leave!!! Take your daughter where it is safe! Go back home...their has to be someone who can help and family would be the best. You need to get out of there and get some help for yourself and once you are gone tell him why and tell him he should get some MUCH needed help for his problems. I see so many red flags and to be honest with you...you are not safe there and that is a bad situation for you to be in. Nobody deserves that!!!
Leave! Leave! Leave! As soon as you can...this is a dangerous situation to be in for you and your precious little girl.
Angel
Re:Hi, I'm new here. This is my story. amola: jennah,
please please please be careful.......i have just gotten out of a very verbally and emotionally abusive marriage, which thank god never became physical. your husband has definitely crossed the line.....no one--male or female--deserves to be abused in any way. you have to do what you can do to keep yourself and your daughter safe.
i know how hard it can be to leave....trust me, i know. i've been there. i had to deal with the control issues, though they weren't as severe as yours. it's scary as he!! to be there and even scarier to leave.
check into local resources--look up "domestic violence" in your local phone book. they should have a safe house where you and your daughter can go. the locations of these houses are well protected, and if by chance your husband knows where it is, they can send you to one in another town. they can house you and feed you and clothe you. they can hook you up with other resources and help you to get back on your feet. they can even come and get you if you need a ride, and you can time it for when your husband is at work.
get together all of your important papers.....your and your daughter's birth certificates, your social security card, your bank info, your daughter's immunization records, your marriage license. pack a bag with essentials so that you can live for a day or two. keep it all hidden and when you have your chance, get out!
please keep posting.....let us know what is going on....let us know that you're safe. we're all here for you, k?
{{{{{hugs}}}}}
amola
please be careful.....please be safe.....
Re:Hi, I'm new here. This is my story. Discarded: If there is a next time there is violence call the police for domestic violence. Get it logged legally. This will go very far in the courts eyes if/when you get into divorce proceedings.
As for the house in divorce proceedings you would get 1/2 the equity of the house provided your state is similiar to mine.
You need to get out of this situation. From what you are saying things could get alot worse fast. He is abusive and obsessive and it could get dangerous if he finds out you plan on leaving.
Get legal help and there are groups out there for women in your situation. Contact them and find out your options. Being online and being here if he has put spyware on your comp could be devastating if you haven't disabled all of it when you thought you have. Make a doctor's appt for you or your baby and get the information about womens groups that can help you there, almost all doctor's offices have them. Contact them as soon as you can, hopefully while at the same doctor's appointment.
Don't stick around in this situation, you are playing with fire planning on leaving and staying in the situation while planning and gathering information.
Discarded
Re:Hi, I'm new here. This is my story. bella: I agree with everyones advice to get out of the situation and just writing your story is a giant step. You are reaching out and I understand how hard it is to follow through don't be hard on yourself don't worry,don't panic. I agree with getting all your documents together and checking out support networks in your area. I hope that you and your daughter are ok.
Re:Hi, I'm new here. This is my story. Hells_Fairy: I am sorry you are here.
It's a sad thing that your hubby treats you that way.
You are thinking positively for wanting to get out. I don't blame you one bit. You and your daughter deserve better.
Where in Texas do you live?
Good luck!!
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