Having a down day! Terry: Hi those that are still on-line!
I haven't been around too long.... but am starting to see some familiar names! Kind of comforting! :)
I'm not sure why I'm so down today! I can't seem to stop thinking about some of his last words to me! He was saying that if I wasn't so closed off to him (not sex) that things might be different! He knew that I was going through a tough time in my work situation and seemed to use that as a reason to go find someone else! I know that if you love someone..... you don't just write them off that quick! Or..... did I screw up??
Really........ I know the answer to this...... why does it still bother me??
Thanks for any input
Terry
Re:Having a down day! Dino: It's hard not to dwell on things said and things left unsaid. You are right. If you love someone, you don't leave them so quickly. If you love someone, you should fight to be with them. In my opinion anyway. Unless they are cheaters, liars, violent etc. He is just grabbing at anything to rationalise his behaviour to himself so he doesn't feel as bad.
Re:Having a down day! OldSchool: Terry,
I agree with Dino, he's been selfish and trying to rationalize his own actions. This probably has nothing to do with you at all. Just believe you're doing the best you can... does that advice help you? probably not, but hey I'm not dr. phil. ;)
Hey I still think of my ex... in some respects this place has helped me let go. I'll be ok and so will you. It won't take you as long as it has me... heck no... I've gone thru this pretty much solo even though I've got the support system in place. This is how I chose to do it.
Sometimes I still dream about my ex... nothing too graphic.. kind of an empowering dream like her pumping gas in my car when it's below zero, or baking me a cake just because I'm just that dang special... catch my drift? ;)
OS
Re:Having a down day! Terry: Thanks,
I guess I just needed to hear it from someone else! When you are left alone to rationalize it all.... you start to question yourself! After all.... those hurtful words are all that's left ringing in your ears when he goes! And the same words are what you wake up to... alone!
Am thinking I need to be a little busier to combat the thinking time! :)
Hugs to U
Terry
Re:Having a down day! Terry: Hey OS,
Didn't read your post right away!
Thanks for the laugh..... that's better!
;DTerry
