Re:Not a clue what to do! Croutonic: Our situations are very similar. I've cried, I've screamed, I've begged, but she won't budge, because she's a) not in love with me anymore, and b) she's in love with the other guy. She is the only person who can change her mind. No amount of begging or pleading is going to make her realize that she's making a mistake.
In my case, it hurts a lot to know that she has someone to cry to now, but I have no one. She has help, and someone telling her that she did the right thing, and I can only have arguments with myself.
My advice is to cut the thread. If she doesn't want you, fine. Make it your goal to make your life the best it can be. Live for you. Maybe she'll realize she made a mistake in a few months, a year. Deal with it then. You'll have more strength and you'll know what you really want.
Re:Not a clue what to do! pleesehelp: But if things do happen, where can I go? My daughter would probably have to go back to my first wife and my wife would probably take the boys. She doesnt have any place to go either unless this guy offered to take them in. There are no hints yet of this. My dad already let me come back after my first divorce and then I met my wife. I dont make that much money and were up to our ears in debt!
