Something Woderful under a Vent incoherentlonghorn: Lol...longest post ever and I am now smiling. But if anyone has any brilliant suggestions I'm game. Woderful...wonderful...
Why is it that everytime something good happens to me, court is ultimately the topic of conversation? I meet the man of my dreams :) , move in after divorced ;D , this may look :( "bad." I just got an interview from the company I was initially supposed to work for, this may be bad.
Lol...I never thought I'd say my dream job, a 25 percent payraise, and a superb resume builder would be in fact a "bad thing." Not that I have the job yet, but the interview is Tuesday, I've worked there before, and I'm qualified. I don't even know if I wan't to work there but since the ex tried to remove this job opportunity two years ago, it would put at least a small ;D smile ;D on my face.
I inquired the repurcussions of this move on any potential modifications or the upcoming court date if the ex won't sign. My attorney left me a voicemail laughing hysterically :-\ asking if I think the ex will sign before I do this. Implying that wohoo, here's another worm for the ex to bait as an excuse to not sign... Not that it's a good excuse to refuse signing papers (maybe a modification), but an excuse none-the-less.
My annoyance is that I'm in limbo. I'm divorced but not FREE to make decisions without thinking of what hole I'm digging next!!!!! I'm legally divorced but not technically. And goodness, I'm having to go to court and being penalized for being responsible and successful?????? I'm paying a court ordered loan payment in the ex's name and they won't give me the remaining balance but will tell me that the payments are late and more need to be made!!!!! Then I go down the, what other part of my credit is he ruining spiral.
My attorney has finally agreed that 60 days is enough and on Monday is getting a court date. I can't put my life on hold any longer for this <insert foul word for ex>. Like Safety said, you can't pass up a great opportunity in fear of neverending court fees and unreliable child support.
The longer he waits to sign the papers the more "changes" can occur to my life thereby changing circumstances - this is the loophole for not signing and getting away with it.
What so I can't get married or move on or make significant life changes? What if I got pregnant!!! I can buy a new car but not any real estate? I can't buy a new house without him being tied, but we are divorced.
This has been my complaint for HOW LONG...just one more month and it will end!!!! There has to be an end. Who would have thought divorced but still Mrs. S.
Sometimes a girl needs to play with fun text and enjoy life a little...
[move"> [color=Green"> Be careful who you marry or it will[/color"> [/move">
[move"> [glow=red,2,300"> BITE[/glow"> [/move">
[move"> [color=Purple"> you on the a$$ repeatedly!!