Re:does he really love me? sheydp: Maybe he does love you, in his own way. The question is, it is the love you deserve? I know you must know, deep down inside, that you deserve the love of a person who can stand to be alone if they need to be, and yet chooses to not be alone with you and only you, no matter what temptations are out there. You can't find that love while you wait for him to become a person he obviously can't be.
Re:does he really love me? lvaughn24: Mine was doing the same thing says hes going to break up with other woman and start spending more time with me. Told me he loves me but with her its just lust.I think mines full of crap, and I would be careful with my emotions and believing what he says. Things change in my stbx every day. Just be careful, and dont believe evrything that he says until he backs it up with actions. thats how im handling mine. Just my opinions, and good luck to you.
Re:does he really love me? jjbswest: Just wanted to say thanks to all of you for your replies. Each and everyone one of you said something that stuck out to me.
Heartbroken, you are right. Why does he have the right to put demands on me when he is the one who cheated?
Terry, talking to you privately on this already.
Sully, he doesn't know what love really is. That's right because love is unconditional. Not because you don't do what they want you to do when they want you to do it.
Txmom3, can't do a no contact rule because of the kids. but, I do believe he is messing with my mind so much that i can't see clear.
Sheydp, I do want someone who is with me because they want to be. Not because of fear of being alone. or go to someone else because they dont' want to be alone. i do deserve better. just scared that i won't find better, i guess.
Lvaughn, I actually truly laughed when I read yours. "I think mine's full of crap" just tickled me. That's what I think about mine really. I know my emotions are still new and I love him and want to believe what he says but he's been lying for 3-4 months. So I can't really believe him. His actions aren't showing what he says. I have to keep that in mind when dealing with him.
All of you had great replies and I had to just say thanks to each and every one of you. Because there was just something that stuck out to me with all of them. But something else that stuck out to me, was that alot of you said "mine does this same thing to me" . I am gonna take your advice and see what happens. I can't take the emotional ups and downs right now. I can't take him messing with me like that. I have to make up my mind that I deserve some respect and take no less.
Thanks all!
Re:does he really love me? Shanna: You can have "no contact" beyond discussing the kids. I do suggest this.....I did it and it really helped me. AND HURT HIM ;D
Re:does he really love me? timetobefree: I'll keep my response short and sweet...
Actions speak louder than words.
Your actions are speaking SO LOUDLY I can barely hear what you are saying.
His actions are telling you the only truth you need to know.
Take care,
Amy :D
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