finally took a stand against her hardened_heart1970: well. this will probably be partial vent to. i FINALLY TOOK a stand with her. we was talking, and i asked if she had changed her mond yet. she said you already made the decision, when the lawyer sent me more paperwork today. i said i have nothing to do with that. i then asked her one more time, do you want to try, and to be a family again? she blew up, and said you are never gonna change. you always try to use the kids. i then said GOOD. I AM gonna try to say this nicely. and i quote " you know what? as a matter of fact, i dont want you anymore because im better than what you are doing to me. dont fin bother talking to me anymore, and further more, go down to boyfriends house in ho-ville. you will be there anyways. " she hung up on my daughter. good. hope your pizzed as heck. there are now, no PICTURES of her in the house at all. i did however, selectfully cut her and her body out of a few that had the kids in it. i also threw some knicknacks out on the lawn, and will be plowing them in the a.m. then i will bring my front end loader down, and run through my house to to show her how f in mad i am, to marry this gdfposfhcbmfcsgh. uhuhuhuhugggg, shes not worth even getting mad over. well guess what. its blow up for the last time. i hope the guardian, sees that im the only one who cares for the kids and gives me full custody. they dont deserve the pos mother they have. they are alot better than her.
quite the mom who leaves the kids, for another man. she should be really proud of herself. i hope life gives her more lemons than it has given me. for all you that dont wish their ex bad luck, i will take your bad luck and wish it on mine.
today, my marriage died. finally. i also will be burying my feelings forever. never will this ever happen again. it is now my kids and me. thats it forever. just cant do this anymore. god, i hate her. i hate her.
Re:finally took a stand against her Shanna: A step forward for you.....
you always word things in such a way to make me smile.....I am so sorry that things have to be this way for you, you do deserve much more....I know nothing I can say will help....but I am still here for you if you need to talk.
Take care,
Shanna
Re:finally took a stand against her jen: Good for you for taking a stand...You're right, you do deserve better that what she has given. I am sorry that you feel like it will always be this way, but I am glad that you are moving forward.
Re:finally took a stand against her hardened_heart1970: well, thanks. but im not still sure i did the right thing. atleast if i want to do it for my kids. my daughter has a play next week, and do you know how hard it was to tell her she had to chose me or mom? i told her i wouldnt be mad. she chose me, and said i do everything for them, thats why.
why do i feel so guilty for having to say or do that to my daughter. the restraining order will not allow us there no matter what. so she done it to herself and not me. i just feel im letting my daughter down, even if im not to blame. but tonites, reaction was based on how much stuff can someone go through, untill they get un dumb and smarten up? i hope this is the last time for me. thanks jj bye
Re:finally took a stand against her jjbswest: hey, you are a great father to those kids. that's why she chose you. she so much as said that. they love you. So, that's all you need. You are not letting your daughter down because she even said that you do everything for them. that doesn't sound like you have let her down. Give your kids credit. They may not understand what all is going on but they do understand that their daddy loves them and will always be there for them. You have a right to be angry or sad or whatever feeling you have. But, you have to watch what you do with that because you have eyes watching....your daughters. I was a little girl once and went through this same thing with my dad. I never once was disappointed in my dad. I felt bad for him, but I thought he was the biggest, strongest dad in the world and nothing could ever hurt me because my daddy was there. I am pretty sure that's how they feel. (Even if they throw major temper tantrums or drive you crazy at times...that's normal.) I told you how to fix those temper tantrums. ;) I am just waiting to hear you say you actually did it. ;D Anyway, you are so welcome. I am here anytime. You already know that though. You will be okay, i promise...
