Re:he is such a jerk amola: [quote author=heartbroken4 link=board=20;threadid=7060;start=0#msg56764 date=1106269183">
Dont let him get to you!
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that's my problem right there in a nutshell.....i don't know what happened today because i can normally take his crap and not let it bother me, but for some reason today he just pushed all the right buttons.
i get so tired of him accusing me of having an affair....for crying out loud, that's so rediculous that i just can't believe it. he just keeps rehashing that and telling me how he has "proof" of it and i'm so afraid that he's going to try to ruin my friend's life with it (the friend that i'm supposedly sleeping with). i already called my friend before to let him know that he was my imaginary boyfriend so he knows, but still it aggravates me that my ex would even bring it up again.
ugh. men.
:-\
aggravated amola
Re:he is such a jerk amola: the saga continues.....
ok, i managed to keep my cool all weekend....i had the kids with me, so whenever he called, just picked up the phone and handed it to them. they would talk, ask me if i needed to talk to him, i'd say no, and they'd hang up the phone. didn't talk to him once. *sigh of relief*
the girls proceed to tell me several times over the weekend about how they don't like living in 2 houses and they want to live in just one (his)....i tell them that i know how hard this must be for them and we have several long conversations.....i asked them how they felt when their dad and i were fighting all the time and they said that it made them sad and that they like that we don't fight anymore....i asked them if they miss their dad when they're here and they said yes and i reminded them that starting in february they aren't going to see me as much and they said that they'd miss me.....they told me that "dad said that he didn't want to get un-married but i made him" (which really peeved me off because he never once fought the divorce) so whatever he's saying to them is certainly making me out to be the bad guy.......it was horrible.
then this morning, as i'm checking out the obituaries online (i'm not that morbid of a person, but it's part of my job so i have to do it) i see one for some distant relative of his. so i call him and say hey, i saw this obit and thought that it was one of your relatives.....he says yeah, not sure how she's related but she is somehow through his father, no big deal and he hangs up. i don't even know what possessed me to call him......but that was it, end of discussion and he hung up on me again.
$crew him.
i'm tired of being nice. i'm tired of being nice and getting nothing but sh!t for it. i'm tired of hearing the kids say how wonderful of a father he is and how much they miss him and they want to be with him. i'm tired of second-guessing every move that i make in fear that he might be spying and trying to use things against me. i'm tired of the constant fight about where they're going to go to school. i'm tired of my family telling me that he is a jerk and he's just trying to get his own way and i should fight him tooth and nail on it.
i really think that i'm just getting too tired to fight....
Re:he is such a jerk raistlynne: [quote author=amola link=board=20;threadid=7060;start=0#msg57469 date=1106588444">
i call him and say hey, i saw this obit and thought that it was one of your relatives.....[/quote">
Instead of being nice, how about calling to ask if the dead relative took him along with them? ;D
Re:he is such a jerk amola: don't tempt me.........see my latest vent post........
