Re:Is there any chance of change?(explaining the story better) sheydp: One thing that really struck me about another response to your post is when they said only she can change her mind... That is true. Begging is not going to change her mind. If she is still there, you can be the person you want to be, the person you wish you had been, but it is (sadly, very sadly) probably too late for her to see it. You need to be the best person you can be, and if she isn't able to see that because of your past, someone else will, and now you won't ever take them for granted. You will be ok - even financially, eventually. There are lots of agencies to help both with debt and with setting up a new household, see what you can find in your town or county help services... One question - why would your daughter go back to your other x? If you have custody, even if you get a divorce you should be able to keep her... About the sick feeling - know that feeling - cry when you can, otherwise find something to do that will engage your mind, it won't help permanently, but it can help short term...
Re:Is there any chance of change?(explaining the story better) pleesehelp: Jenni Cole & KellyA- I totally agree with you on those subjects. I only did little things and in the begining I did it all. Yes everybody needs these things and thats what I now realize if she would just let me show her. It just may be too late and this other guy is probably doing and saying all the things she needs. I just wish it wasnt with my wife! But I did tell her she looked good and held her hand no matter where we went but I dont think it was enough because it didnt prove anything. God I'm so stupid! Thats what I mean about mistakes. Human beings make them and some times they can be fixed and sometimes you have to erase twice. I need this second chance. I love my wife!
Re:Is there any chance of change?(explaining the story better) Jennicole: i can only say this about my relationship, but if i leave my husband and he changes i am going to jump at the chance to be back with him. i love him with all my heart, and the only reason i am leaving is in the hopes that he will. i have prepared myself if he doesnt though. but hang in there. hopefully things will get better soon, and whatever the outcome, in a year you will look back and be happy with the outcome.
