Re:by popular demand...my story (finally) pauly: Thanks for sharing that.I agree cheating is most definately not ok but it seems that you were caught between a rock and a hard place.It was gonna happen either way by the sound of it.
Overall,it would seem you deserve so much better.I know equality rules but he really should be more responsible,more so with that situation.
Take some more time out for yourself,space is good.See how you feel,say in 4 weeks time.
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Re:by popular demand...my story (finally) Dino: Thanks for sharing your story
I know you consider cheating wrong, but what went through your mind at the time you cheated. Was it a drunken spur of the moment thing? Or did you get to know the guy first and follow things through?
Re:by popular demand...my story (finally) radiogal: i met him at work, started hanging out with him, and eventually, one thing led to another...(workplace dating? another cardinal sin...what WAS i thinking?) it wasn't at all like i left my husband for this guy, though...it seems that way because of the timing...but the truth is, i'd been considering leaving for a long time...this other guy showing me how i'm supposed to be treated was a bit of a wake-up call...
