Re:Brand new, would like some insight CoryL: You need to be honest with both your husband and yourself. It may be the most difficult conversation you have with him, but you need to have it. Like others have said, communication, communication, communication.
You may be able to work these issues out. You may both decide to move on. Whatever the outcome, it is better to deal with it now. Putting this off for five years for the sake of being polite isn't helping anyone.
I know how hard the first step is. Once you take it, the others get easier (even when they seem harder).
Keep your head up.
