Re:Brand new, would like some insight A002702: This may be harsh, but someone very wise told me
to PRAY, SHUTUP, AND WAIT FOR GODS ANSWER.
I know its hard, but sometimes our emotions and feelings are not God's plan. If you act on your feelings now, you may regret them later. Sometimes we get very pissed at someone because they said something only to find out that we misinterpreted. The angry feeling we felt was not justified.
I wish my wife new this before she told me she was feeling smothered and went out and had an affair and left me. Sometimes we react to what our heart is feeling and not waiting for our head to catch up.
Just my thoughts and opinions.
CD
Re:Brand new, would like some insight Bocephus: Talk talk talk. Must talk. Counseling maybe? No suprises.
Re:Brand new, would like some insight loshyra: Talk to each other and pray hard about it. Remember that once you leave and have hurt him that way there is NO way to take it back. And who knows how that will effect the marriage.
Re:Brand new, would like some insight timetobefree: Counseling. My counselor told me one of the biggest problems with young couples is the inexperience in fighting and the problems it leads to. Sounds exactly like where you two are. Try it...either it helps or you both can walk away knowing you tried to save your marriage.
Take care,
Amy :D
Re:Brand new, would like some insight sheydp: totally agree Amy! Gotta feel like you tried...
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