Update galil: I saw my ex-wife for the first time in person yesterday after about a year of not seeing her.
It was as if she was a total stranger to me. We had to go to court yesterday and I had no clue she was going to be there. I figured her lawyer was going to be there but for the most part there was no reason for her to be there at all.
Anyway :) It felt super good to see her, I know what you all are going to say but wait :)
When i walked in the court room there was no one in there but a woman sitting on one of the benches. I looked directly at the woman and kept on walking. I looked at her again and thought to myself she looked like someone I knew.
Then I took a third look and realized it was someone I thought I knew for many years and realized it was my ex-wife.
Anyway I kept on going past her and didnt feel anything at all :) it was as if she was just another stranger that you may see on the street.
I have to say once I sat down and actualy took a look at her I starting feeling good. her calfs on her legs had gotten big and they kinda melted into her ankle. Where as years before she had nice legs. I looked at her waste and realized she was wearing a black skirt in order to hide her larger figure.
She has become and is becoming excatly what I thought she would. Anyway, then I looked at her face as I looked I could only see a shell of a human that in no way shape or form exuded any type of happiness in her life. She looked as miserable yesterday as the day she left. Her make up was shotty and thrown on.
Then I started to get this warm fuzzy feeling inside, I looked down at my arms and my waste and realized that I looked damn good, better than she has ever seen me my entire life :)
I felt good and no matter what the judge could say or do it would not ruin this moment I was having.
Anyway we did the normal judge thing and she had to rule on a couple of items. One was not in my favor but in all reality I cant blame the judge as I would have made the same ruiling she did. The other one we will have to see how it goes.
Once the judge was finished she told my ex-wife and myself we were free to go she wanted to talk with them privately. I looked up at my lawyer and asked if he needed me at this time for anything and he said nope he will talk with me later.
I got up never looked at my ex and hit the door running.
As I was headed back home I realized I had many things to worry about and get done. The good news is none of the thingsI had to worry about or get doen had anything to do with my ex-wife or the courts.
I was more concerned about the basement I am finishing for my GF. she has a new home and has an unfinished walk out basement that I am making into a theatre room:)
I got my mom to go with me and we layed it all out after court that day.
Anyway it felt good to overcome that hurtle. I anticipated that moment to be full of much pain and sorrow, that was far from the case.
It is amazing how time can truly heal your wounds and make you see thinsg differently. I was blinded by my ex for many years and was to blind to see the REAL her. Now ofter a year of being apart and not seeing one another I see her for who she realy is and can say she was not even attractive to me like I thought she was.
I an do so much better than her and have done so much better than her. It was nice to see her lawyer basicly begging the judge to let her keep the car.
In the end people I promiss, Everyone here that was left WILL have there day:) I had mine and it felt great.
If my ex were as happy as she once claimed to be she would have dropped everything and gone on with her life. She has wasted many dollars trying to fight for small and petty things and is in the process od suing me as well. Does this sound liek a happy person? Nope she will never be happyand that will be her torture for the rest of her life. She will grow old and bitterlike her mother and I will and have found my happiness and have a wonderfull life to look forward to without the funk my ex-wife brought into my life.
WOW that felt good you all hang in there you will all have your day, I promiss:)
Re: Update alldone: Good for you! I hope you gave you a good look at the hottie she gave up before you walked out! ;D
Amanda
Re: Update alldone: I meant to say her a good look........
Re: Update hurtingverymuch: That is so great!! ;D
I'm fairly new here and don't know much about your story but it's so great to hear that you're doing well.
;D
Take Care!
Hugs
Hurt
Re: Update down2basics: THREE CHEERS FOR YOU GALIL!!!
I am so proud for you...it's wonderful to finally hear from you again! I was beginning to worry!
By the way...how is Old-shoes? How is he doing? Any reports!? How is the harem coming? LOL! :-* Ha!
I am so glad to hear your court date went well. Whew...that is such a relief! Glad to hear you've found happiness in your GF too...that's really important...
Hugs! Glad you're back!
d2b
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