Re:something to bring me down hardened_heart1970: whats this the day of bad memories? my god im in a terrible mood, and cannot get her out of my head.... i wish it was all over, and i had never met her....
Re:something to bring me down Dino: it feels that way sometimes. i dont wish i had never met her. i felt that way before but not anymore. i can see the good things that we shared. i have so many years of great memories. i know that i can love and love deeply. i dont feel bad about myself. i just wish things hadn't ended.
i need to go and do something to take my mind off things
Re:something to bring me down Chase: If it's any help my counsellor recommended exercise and reading when I get stuck thinking about things. When the contact isn't there, and the communication is not possible, you end up just thinking the same things over and over, and because you can't work out the answers, they just tie you up in knots.
Go and have a run, or a bike ride or something, or get a good book and immerse yourself in it.
The pain doesn't go, but it may help you put it aside for a while.
Chase
Re:something to bring me down CoryL: [quote author=bitterdino link=board=1;threadid=7504;start=0#msg59934 date=1107380184">
It's weird to think of her progressing her new relationship so quickly.
I guess it still hurts me to know that as much as I tried, and as happy as she made me, I couldn't maker her happy. It sucks.
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My STBX has been out of the house for two months and I think she is already on a second relationship. At first I was seriously downtrodden. I felt so down thinking about how alone I am while she is out on the town. Then I realized how much better off I am going to be for actually DEALING with things now, rather than carry baggage from relationship to relationship like she will.
No one can make someone else happy. Happiness comes from within. She wasn't happy with herself and there was nothing you could have done to change that. I was in the same situation. It sucks that we had to be collateral damage. Keep your head up though, we'll get through times like these.
I don't know if that helps ease things for you, but I hope it may.
Re:something to bring me down Dino: thanks all
i was feeling pretty sh*tty this morning but im ok now. im just dealing with the whole rejection thing still. i accepted it long ago but it takes some getting used to.
thanks for the support though
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