Re:So Sad After The Move...Please Help heartbroken: Just wanted to send hugs and tell you that I understand how you feel as do so many others here.
((((HUGS))))
Re:So Sad After The Move...Please Help gumby55555: I know it can get SO hard sometimes, LT, but I hope you feel better soon... don't worry, it's perfectly natural to have days like this. Two steps forward, one step back, right? As long as you're making progress overall, just hunker down and ride out the bad days and bad moments... you and Dino are both in my thoughts... hang in there, guys, it WILL get better!
Re:So Sad After The Move...Please Help TexaninNH: I know how you feel LT :( I have had my own (and first) apartment since October. I still hate the feeling of opening the door and seeing nothing but some hand-me-down cr@p I took when I left. It has gotten a little better, but it is still lonely. On a positive note, it has afforded me the time and space to really change who I am. Not for her, but for me!! My situation is entirely different than yours, but loneliness is loneliness. You never know....maybe this will allow you to do some things you wouldn't or couldn't have done before. I like the idea of having some friends over....could be fun!!
Re:So Sad After The Move...Please Help LostTeacher: well, two days later, and still haven't spent a night there, but planning to this weekend. just been too busy with work that i haven't even had time to make the bed. did a lot of thinking and talking the last few days, and starting to feel a bit better. it was the constant contact that was making it so hard. especially talking to him more within 2 days than i had in the last 2 months. it's just hard to see that part of my life over. but it opens my eyes to what i need to do to make my life better.
bitterdino: i know the suckyness of this situation, and i can only say that you really do need to ride out the bad times like gumby said. it does get better.
although i am getting tired of feeling like i have reached the end of a certain amount of greiving, and then i feel like i need to start all over again. ???
