Re:What do you want out of life? lvaughn24: I feel the same way dino. I thought I had the love of my life. The one person who would stand by me no matter what, and he did for the longest time, but then he changed. Right now my goals are simple get a life for myself and my kids, move on when Im ready and be more careful about who I choose and continue me education to find a better job. I know now i dont need him and ill be ok without him. I have been for 3 months.
Re:What do you want out of life? twetifb: What I want most out of my life is happiness. Happiness that is not weighed by material things, but that is real inside me. My mom wrote me a note a few weeks back and in it she said, "I dream for the happiness in your smile to reach your eyes because all I see in your eyes is sadness. That sadness wasn’t always there and it doesn’t have to remain there." That's what I'm striving for!
Re:What do you want out of life? jjbswest: First, more than anything, i want my kids to be happy. Second, i want to be happy and hope that i meet someone that i can fully trust and love. I want to show my kids that just because something bad happens in your life, your life isn't over. you move on. find something you want to do and do it. your happiness does not have to rely on someone else.
Re:What do you want out of life? amola: something that i've been thinking about for a while......maybe if i put some of my goals into words, it'll help me to focus on them a little bit more......
short term:
[list"> [*"> keep my house cleaner
[*"> get my office organized
[*"> just get my act together as far as general organization
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medium range:
[list"> [*"> lose some more weight, get in better shape
[*"> quit smoking
[*"> start saving some money out of every paycheck
[*"> get a consolidation loan so that i can try to get out of debt a little faster
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long term:
[list"> [*"> be the best mother that i can be (should be on all 3 lists, actually)
[*"> get to the point (financially) that i don't have to work 2 jobs anymore, or at least reduce my hours at the second job so that i have more time for myself
[*"> focus more on me.....do more things for me.....right now it's survival.....later on it'll be time for me.
Re:What do you want out of life? Dino: Great to see the replys guys. Good to know I'm not the only one feeling this way.
Tweety- love what your mum said, great words
I know some people who have very definate goals with their plans all layed out. I guess I was wondering if I would end up like that as I got a little older. doesnt look that way though.
i like being a dreamer. may not work for others but it seems to work for me.....except for the ex of course :)
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