Re:Really confused Thinkin: sorry for rambling?
That is the best thing you can do right now, It's not really rambling. It's writting it out and seeing what comes out. You'll see, type it all out, you find that there are alot of people in your shoes right now and you'll get alot of help from it. From putting out there to getting the feedback. It will help Also look at other stories Here's Mine
http://www.ojar.com/boards/index.php?board=1;action=display;threadid=7355;start=msg58987#msg58987
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http://www.ojar.com/boards/index.php?board=1;action=display;threadid=7477;start=msg59729#msg59729
Re:Really confused tarasan: Especially this last year when I've tried to put her on a pedastal more so than ever before because family has become really important to me and I've heard that the best thing for kids is to see how much their dad loves her. Which is why this came out of left field because I thought we have been doing the best that we have in a long time. Maybe if I had just swallowed the things that really bothered me and didn't voice my hurt this wouldn't have happened.
Re:Really confused tarasan: Well my wife came to me today and told me that she had consulted a lawyer. Now as far as 'talking' about what we are going to do she 'told' me that my dad (who is 65) has a three bedroom house and that I should move into as the kids consider this home and they are staying with her. Well first thing is my dad lives about 20 miles out of town and I don't think she would be willing to pay gas and vehicle maintenance as it gets a lot of mileage right now with my job. And I don't understand this that she is the one wanting to leave why must I leave? Also, I am worried about the children and how she is using them as far as I am concerned because she knows that I wouldn't be willing to make the move but brings them up to come back and say that I am not thinking of the children. She doesn't consult me about anything and this is crap. Is the law that everything is 50/50 regardless of how twisted the situation is? Thanks for listening.
Re:Really confused sheydp: Ouch... I don't have much to add except that I AM listening... This is really rough, and it sounds like it will be for awhile, but I promise it will get better later... Just keep pouring it out here, people will chime in when they have more to add than my lame little ouch... I am not much help, I know, but I care!
Re:Really confused tarasan: Thank you. This is just getting to be a bigger and bigger pit of despair all the time for which I am still awaiting a reason.
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